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DustStar wrote: Thu Jul 17, 2025 7:53 pm My journey is short, and a lot of why it ended up sticking was more retroactive than anything. I've always liked chinchillas a lot ever since my one childhood friend had one as a pet. Cute, soft, and excitable little stinkers who even have a unique way of cleaning themselves.

So I kinda lurked in furry spaces for a while before I finally took a more active role, and when I wanted to decide on a fursona, a chinchilla ended up being picked almost immediately. Funny enough it wasn't until after when I looked up what one would have to do when keeping them as pets that I realized how perfect they were to represent me. From how excitable they get, to the fact that they need do terribly in the heat and need colder climates to survive. It all lined up nicely.

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in the furry denial years where I refused to accept I was one despite consuming a lot of Furry Content, what finally did it was some “draw yourself as an animal crossing villager” meme floating around tumblr - I liked the rabbit villagers as I had a stack of them in wild world I think, and I thought why not, right? then it hit me that oops I’m this actually lmao

skip forward however many years passed to a few years ago, where I got introduced to yinglets and quickly scrawled myself as one for a laugh, and then that one hit me like a brick dropped from an overpass hitting a car windscreen travelling at 70mph and I am very much enjoying the chaotic quality it’s bought to my online experience. coincidentally a few other people ended up as yings after that but that’s just a thing that happens I think. a lot of us joke about intentionally or otherwise zat zhinging people (ie: the process in the webcomic in which people are TFed into yinglets) but it keeps happening!! coincidentally this happened about the time I got an iPad + procreate for art and I was making so much stuff it was unreal, new guy syndrome feel can make me real productive it seems

bunnymoot is still around and interacting with yingmoot and I do not worry about the logistics of that in the slightest but for all intents and purposes I’m both of them
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i'll be real with you i'm a dog because i think dog furries are hot and also i exhibit dog-like qualities, hey you gonna finish that costco-sized jar of peanut butter?
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Hmm I am a Yeti because I was gonna be a sasquatch, however I love white fur over brown lol. Simple as that. I also just like being a mix of furr and human.
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(Hi Loosf :D !! I believe you already know some of my lore in short but for the sake of participating in the thread, it'll be the more depth version.)

For me it's simply I just loved dogs and grew up around them, I was raised around bully breeds cos of my dad and uncle. I be barking around the apartment, tryna run on all fours and shit. It was fun xD

Now as a kid, I really loved wolves and dogs and got my hands on every animated cartoon with a canine character whether feral or anthro (I was obsessed!) I saw Balto, so I naturally I felt inspired and made my sona a wolf then later a wolf dog. Later I saw Oliver and company, all dogs go to heaven and blah blah. I noticed how they all seem to have a specific breed they choose and its always a pure bred. I suddenly wanted to be a mutt, didn't want to be one of those "popular" breeds. But over time as I learn to take pride of my appearance and how I represent myself with my sona, how ever single design of him had my essence of personality BUT rarely ever key traits of my irl appearance.

I remember rewatching Balto, as a teen and that line "Not a dog, not a wolf, all he knows is what he is not." During this time, I was going thru that identity crisis a lot of mixed race kids would go thru, eventually I realized that crisis also did correlate with how I represent myself with my sona. In the end, I decided to pick my fave breeds and be a mix of the two. Really goin down the list of breeds that best represent me. I really love American Pitbull Terriers (due to growing up around them) and Labradors for their physical traits and personality traits. These breeds were so different but also similar in ways that mixing them wouldn't look too out of place. I felt like both of them really represented me and thus I made my fursona a Pitador! I added my key facial and body features and it all just felt RIGHT. The rest was history. I love being a Pitador, best choice I ever made for myself :>
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Initially it was a lynx fursona, but some stuff went down and I decided I needed a full rebranding (edit: zhat sounds kinda bad >.> stuff DID go down, but not by me-someone decided my privacy didn't matter to zhem and I just kinda felt icky afterward). So I went to chocobo, and zhat actually felt way better! Instant species euphoria.

I was on Cohost for awhile and had not read Out of Placers at ze time, so when a buncha fun little critters started populating my timeline I didn't have full context, but zhey seemed to be having a good time so I was always happy to see one on my timeline. Back in February I went from "I miss Cohost, I'm gonna follow a yinglet starter pack to make zhis site feel more like home" to "...zhis ends wizh me changing fursonas, doesn't it" to filling out an artist friend's commission form to change my sona's look wizhin, like, eight hours.

Haven't really looked back, outside of getting art of her as a raptor, too. Zhere's a specific sorta shape in common between chocobo/ying/raptor, and zhat's honestly what feels most correct.
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Fursonas seemed to go dire wolf, fox wolf, dog wolf, etc.

up through the warg that seems to have stuck now for about two decades.

Why?

Well, for the general canine part, I'm guessing because of humanity's historical connection to canines (and felines and other cute or respected non-human species) that caused our different societies to develop a certain social closeness to them -- and then possibly also their wild counterparts, with our societies either fearing or romanticizing them, and even erroneously attributing homogenized attributes to them.

[Example: Something paraphrased like the wolf is a terrible, ravenous creature!, or ~the wolf is strong, fierce, courageous, and noble~. In-person perceptions and recorded media can show that they be just as much individuals as anyone else, whether they be assertive, playful, sociable, goofy, cute, clever, and/or caring, &c.]

But yeah, I deffo fell into that as a teen, and while having become conscious of it since -- I mean, in general, canines are still pretty great, and are similarly great to associate with.

And, as societies have come to realize wolves are actually pretty great, I do love how the same opinion has come of werewolves too, as big, toothy, rawry fluffballs (and that I would totally ask for big hugs from). :D

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The warg part actually came when I was trying to decide on a new username. I was playing around with words and sounds in my head when I imagined a very Wario-like "WAAAAAAAARRRGH!" --

and then I realized, "Hey, wargs are canines, aren't they? Yeah, they are!"

And what I was most thinking of is the wargs as depicted in their 16x16 icon, in the graphical version of NetHack.

I mean, look at that doofy grin! Those comically oversized features, as best as you can represent within 256 total pixels! I loved it.

So I went with it. For a while I just went by the handle of "Warg" and drew myself a quick and silly pixel avatar in MS Paint for the time, which I would just iterate on.

And I guess I grew with it, because they were still canines, but with a monster-like element that I could make into someone big, goofy, fluffy, and utterly huggable. [Which is certainly how I want to make my fursona suit, when I can do so.]

As I grew with it, though, I realized the name was way too general and could quickly become confusing. Also, I kinda wanted the Mexican part of my identity to shine through a bit better. I saw that "warg" in Spanish was "huargo" -- and then, as kind of an opposite to the kind of mystical, high-ranking sorts of names you might see people choose for themselves -- I went with the common name of "Berto." I also went with "un huargo" instead of "el huargo" as a way of saying, "Hey, I'm just one."

And, well -- so it's continued from there. <3
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Lavender wrote: Thu Jul 17, 2025 11:31 pm I was on Cohost for awhile and had not read Out of Placers at ze time, so when a buncha fun little critters started populating my timeline I didn't have full context, but zhey seemed to be having a good time so I was always happy to see one on my timeline. Back in February I went from "I miss Cohost, I'm gonna follow a yinglet starter pack to make zhis site feel more like home" to "...zhis ends wizh me changing fursonas, doesn't it" to filling out an artist friend's commission form to change my sona's look wizhin, like, eight hours.
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for YEARS i had half-joked with friends that I'd have a dog fursona. I I've had sorta fluffy hair for a while (that's only getting more fluffy over time) and since I have ADHD I definitely kinda had those puppyboy (boy at the time at least) vibes. But it never really felt meaningful to me and I never bothered drawing a fursona. I never really considered myself a furry despite following a number of furry artists.

For a while I'd be a fan of sheep/goat furry designs. Sometimes I just liked the vibes and sometimes I just thought they were kinda ... yknow .. (Rauru my beloved.............)

One day on the train downtown the thought popped into my head that surely people make hybrid fursonas sometimes, and a dog/sheep combo might be really cute. That night I became so invested in drawing it that I forgot to make dinner, and afterwards I realized for the first time ever I actually enjoyed how I drew "myself".

A couple months later I went to a furry convention and I finally made friends in the city I had been living in for nearly a year.
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I am incredibly cuddly by nature, and I find so much enjoyment in comforting and caring for my friends, like how someone would find comfort in a plush. Therefore, I am literally a plushie.

As for snow leopard... originally, I was an arctic fox, but for the longest time, snow leopards have been my favorite big cat. Then, I had a very interesting experience when going to see the snow leopard exhibit at a nearby zoo. Suddenly, everything made sense.
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i blame pokemon for my typhlosion obsession obviously

as a "furry characters living in a cute world i would like to live in please let me live there and also oh some of these are really hot" awakening, final fantasy tactics advance was an extremely bad/good influence on my 13 year old brain lol
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we are a lumina (and administra in ylle's case)! this was decided post hoc, since we didn't really have a species (luminae aren't even really a species as much as a category... there's lore). we kind of absolutely abhor being corporeal and being bound to a body that must contend with physics. we didn't want to be deity levels of powerful, and disliked the religious overtones that deityhood came with. so we just decided we were made of magic! (and then daydreamed really hard to find the lore, which we have been writing a tiddlywiki on (tiddlywiki is great if you want to catalogue your own lore)
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it's been wolf all the way down since i was a kid, honestly LOL. except the brief couple of years i had a cat sona. my current sona i added a bit of dragon to him... because it's cool. it's not unique in any way, but it's me.

truly a classic 'i can't decide if i want to be a wolf or a dragon so i'll do both' moment. and also make him emo
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played yoshi's island too much
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Liked foxes as a kid because all the coolest and suavest cartoon characters seemed to be foxes, also I've loved orange as a colour always so they just caught my attention in general. That's also why I then ended up with a Tails recolour as my fan character when I joined the Sonic fandom, and from there it was easy to make the jump into a full-on fox fursona when I discovered furry. Absolutely not the most exciting adventure, I admit.
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Originally I gave my sona Two Heads to show my, at the time, gender fluidity. One person, but one side more masculine and the other more feminine.

Then I became fully transfem so now I have two heads just for cuteness
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EcoHound wrote: Mon Jul 21, 2025 4:55 pm Originally I gave my sona Two Heads to show my, at the time, gender fluidity. One person, but one side more masculine and the other more feminine.

Then I became fully transfem so now I have two heads just for cuteness
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Well, let's see...

I think it has smth to do with me being a nonbinary, neurodivergent, critter that's very indecisive when it comes to various things, and enjoying all things spacey! So when I (re)discovered amphimorpho late last year, my thought was "yup, that's me as a creature". So, now, I'm a noodly shapeshifting alien chimera! x3
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Loosf wrote: Mon Jul 21, 2025 7:10 pm but which head likes the petting the most
You got two hands don't you?
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EcoHound wrote: Mon Jul 21, 2025 9:29 pm
Loosf wrote: Mon Jul 21, 2025 7:10 pm but which head likes the petting the most
You got two hands don't you?
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I regret not realising this topic exists before making this post at the "Show us your fursonae" thread. Luckily, that post mostly just covers the design process and the thoughts behind it, rather than the deep meat of the details.

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I never really had a solid fursona (or any consistent form at all, not even seeing my IRL self as me) representation of myself until 2003. By near total accident.
I was registering an online account for a certain website that still exists, and I needed an anonymous name - looking at my Pokémon Sapphire party of the time, I had a Flygon in it, and I decided to adopt that. Mostly because I quite enjoyed how they looked, felt that represented me, and could easily see myself being one.
The wings, the "friend shaped" body, the pleasing colour scheme. It all just worked out.

I've kinda been one for over 22 years now. Are there any unique design elements to the one that represents me specifically? Not really. Not any detail that feels appropriate for this forum post anyway. It's still bizarre to think about that for the 11 years before then I was essentially formless. Particularly since I was already vaguely aware I was a furry (without having the language to express that concept at the time).

However, this leads into another thing - I couldn't find what I thought the furry fandom was. Even after I discovered what predominantly North Americans online considered the furry fandom, I genuinely thought they were all taking the piss. Everyone (from my point of view) was just humans with animal heads and tails.
That wasn't what I was looking for! To 14-17 year old me (around 2006-2009), that was just someone wanting to be a human with a weird head and tail.

I should backtrack a bit, because the additional information will inform why Flygons (and Brelooms - I was often masquerading as either a Flygon or a Breloom around the 00s online) resonated so incredibly well with me.

As a kid in the 90s, I would often witness a particular theme with "furry" art as I saw it, both in media from Australia, Japan, and the US where relevant.
Whilst the earliest "furry" show I saw that closely resonated with me was probably The Animals of Farthing Wood, that was not the only piece of media that informed and drove me.

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This is faaaaaaaar from a secret, but Shining Force had a huuuge impact on me aesthetically. And the obvious common theme with both Bleu (the Dragon) and Guntz (the Armadillo inside that suit of armour) are friend shaped. This was a game that actually helped teach me how to read too. I was enamoured with both characters. And you can understand how that would have influenced me heavily.

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But, as obvious by my forum avatar, and the above image, and also the post I linked at the top of the post, I'm not just a Flygon, there's also the Flurret character too. Whilst the post there explains the initial design reasoning and thought process of the time, going into the details of the design's deep roots is something that feels pertinent for this post (explaining why I swap between the two is messy, and isn't worth explaining too much detail on), because everything I am going to bring up did have a big impact on me aesthetically, and also thematically.

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To get the elephant out of the room, the design and name similarities with Furrets (left). The similarity exists, but the creature became its own thing so rapidly, away from being based on a Furret alone, that all that really remains is the name, and the ring striping. A lot of design influence actually came from Zigzagoons (right), particularly with the way I tend to draw Flurrets very scruffy like.

Those are not the true root influences that made me the way I am, however. Extremely far from it.
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After The Animals of Farthing Wood, was The Adventures of Blinky Bill that affected by aesthetic direction in a dramatic manner. Whilst this isn't any one thing in particular, and it's hard to directly describe what specific things made my aesthetic the way I am now, it's easiest for me to say that "It's literally all of it".

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An honourable mention goes to the 60s Kimba the White Lion series, which also had a strong effect on me, and is part of why I did adopt the "Pocky Ears" (I was unaware of Bokko from The Wonderful Three until decades later).

There's the most distinct visual element however, the broad cheekfluffs, that I don't believe I've ever actually explained until now.
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I don't believe this show actually aired outside of Australia, but Lift Off had a huge impact on my fascination with frill-necked lizards as a kid, and played a part in making me enamoured with them. The fluffy cheeks are literally the frilled-neck!

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Tails "Miles" Prower (you should all know them) also played a definite part in the design - I actually had quite a crush on Tails as a kid. This did also partly inform the cheekfluff design choice.

As explained in the fursonae topic, the character was done as a design-by-solo-committee original character for use on a now long-dead forum. But as this post elaborates, I was digging deep into what my own existence was, intentionally or not, when designing it. In the end, it's natural that it became an actual fursona, even if completely by accident.

The curious aspect of this all is that neither being a Flygon or the Flurret had any sort of an impact on my gender, or such things. Those, I was aware for most of my life, yet also tragically short of words - and trust - for until the 2010s.

To follow on from earlier in this post though - when I found the fandom in the 00s, I just outright dismissed it. I didn't think they were real furries, and every image in this post provides an explanation for why that is.
Eventually, I did find a community that shared in that "feral or semi-feral" character design aesthetic, and by this point I was also finally an adult. This also ties into me finding a community that didn't treat trans characters as a joke (I bounced off the anthro fandom too quickly at the time), or otherwise non-gender conforming characters.

Thankfully, by the 2010s, Fur Affinity finally had its own community be far far less judgemental about people that weren't just strictly human shaped anthros. This all played a significant role in me not calling myself a furry until around 2015 or so. After all, why should I have?

Why should I have named myself a part of a fandom that actively discriminated against my existence?

Things are much much better now, and much more tolerant within the fandom.
Don't worry, I don't judge anyone that's an anthro. I've matured a lot, and there's a reason there's some anthro art of Flurrets (feminine only!).

I'm sorry if this post has been very aimless. It's part-stream of thought, part explaining my aesthetic influences. As the root post of this thread asks, "what made you choose your sona's species".
And as it turns out, as both a Flygon and a Flurret, the answer is "It's complicated, let's make a complicated post about my existence".
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Very interesting read, Flygon. Haven't really heard a lot of the experience from the more feral side of the fandom. I'll admit I'm one of the people who hasn't been the most comfortable with feral characters, but I also recognize that's because of my own prejudices caused by *my* introduction and desires for what I want out of being a furry.

We've all gotten a lot more live-and-let-live about each other I think, for the best. As the fandom's grown I think there's more room for expression outside the norm. There's still been times where I've had to go ah, this particular community isn't for me due to a heavy lean towards feral characters, but I'm glad there's spaces for them now.
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Flygon wrote: Tue Jul 22, 2025 6:25 am I regret not realising this topic exists before making this post at the "Show us your fursonae" thread. Luckily, that post mostly just covers the design process and the thoughts behind it, rather than the deep meat of the details.
Nice to read! Truth be told we cannot even begin comprehending the idea of furries being weird about cartoon animals, but the entire concept of the "furry fandom" isn't something we really understand in the first place. But anyway, thanks for putting so much out there about it
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EdenCoven wrote: Tue Jul 22, 2025 4:11 pm Nice to read! Truth be told we cannot even begin comprehending the idea of furries being weird about cartoon animals, but the entire concept of the "furry fandom" isn't something we really understand in the first place. But anyway, thanks for putting so much out there about it
To tell on myself a little bit: for me and some other furs I've spoken to, getting into furry was inexorably linked with explorations of sexuality. It was the headspace that was finally safe approach those topics. When we bump into feral or child-coded furry characters there's a gut ick factor, even if those characters are coming from a totally asexual place. Hence why it's important to have different spaces in the community for those of us who want very different things from it.
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Re: Why are you the way you are

Post by EdenCoven »

This is pretty much incomprehensible to us but since it's really not the place we'll chalk it up to "sexuals are strange and alien to us"
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